American vs. Spanish high schools: Teachers Who Talk to You, and an Education System That Actually Makes Sense

 One of the biggest shocks when I started school in Alabama was how friendly the teachers were. On my very first day, they each introduced themselves, told me to reach out if I needed anything, and even introduced me in front of the whole class so people would talk to me (which was such a lifesaver). But it didn’t stop there; teachers would regularly check in, ask how I was doing, and genuinely try to get to know me. It wasn’t just about academics, they actually cared.

Back home in Spain, school is more formal, and somehow also less respectful? We don’t have a dress code, we call teachers by their first names, and the whole dynamic feels more relaxed. But now I realize that those “American rules” (like the dress code or saying “yes ma’am”) aren’t about control. They’re about creating mutual respect, and it works. It makes the whole environment feel more structured and positive.

And the vibe of the school day? It just made more sense. Subjects like sports, art, or even agriculture weren’t just side hobbies, they were real, valid paths students were encouraged to explore. You weren’t expected to be good at everything, just to find your thing and actually get better at it. That mindset built people’s confidence instead of tearing it down.

Let’s be honest, outside of the U.S. (especially in Europe), people love to joke that American schools are “easy” or that the students aren’t as “smart.” I’ll admit I used to kinda believe it too. But after being there? I think the joke’s on us. Their system might be less academically intense, but it allows people to grow into what they love, and be proud of it.

Also… the tests? My GPA was thriving. Multiple choice, more project-based work, and no need to pull all-nighters memorizing entire textbooks. For once, school felt doable. And even more than that, it was fun!

I’m not saying the U.S. system is perfect, but being in it made me realize that school doesn’t have to feel like a constant battle. It can be a place where you’re supported, where people care more about your growth than just your grades, and where you’re actually allowed to enjoy learning. I used to think “easier” meant “worse,” but now I know it just means more balanced. And honestly? I think a little balance is exactly what students need.